Dating In The Electronic Age

With every passing day, things change in the dating world. It seems like only yesterday all you needed for a successful courtship was a big club to smack a love interest over the head with. But nowadays, especially with social media, there are some considerations you need to make while dating new people. So to help you out, I have included a few choice tidbits of information that you may be able to glean some tips from.


Writing Her at Work

Almost every white collar worker has a computer at their disposal in their job place now. This is an opportunity for you to send some little "thinking about you" note. Although you may be tempted to include some cute photo of you and her smooching, or other more intimate stuff, do not do so. Email in the work place is not private, and is often monitored by the computer department. Sending intimate information into a corporation can diminish your girlfriend in the eyes of others at work, especially if she is in any sort of supervisory position. Most people do not realize that work email is not private and it is totally owned by the company where she works. They can read anything at will without any legal documentation required.


Other Dudes Posting on her Facebook Wall

No matter how inappropriate a random yahoo is on your girlfriend’s Facebook wall, don’t lose your cool. Don’t get jealous. If she’s a quality lady, she’ll tell the dude to clean it up or she’ll un-friend him (unless it really us just harmless bantering between old friends). If you see the guy at a club, feel free to “crop dust” him as revenge. (Crop dusting is walking by someone in a club and farting as you pass them, leaving them in a big stink cloud).


Turn Down Your Answering Machine to “Off”

You never know who will call you or what they will say. If you are with your girlfriend in your apartment and your ex calls looking to get back together it could prove embarrassing. To avoid this type of drama in your life, it is just a lot safer to leave the machine off and check messages when you are alone.


See Her Off In The Morning

Many women are very career oriented now. To this end, she may have to be an early riser to stay on top of workloads. If she stayed the night, you will score big points by getting up with her in the early morning hours when she rises. Fix her a light breakfast of toast and coffee, or toast and tea. The extra attention will be well received, and you can pretty much bank on getting some extra loving that night for the effort! Besides, you can go back to sleep after she has gone and grab a few more winks anyway, so it is no biggie from your perspective. This is the best nooky-getting gimmick ever!


Plug All Anniversaries, Etc. Into Your Doodad

Start using that expensive smart phone that you keep in your pocket to its fullest. You may already be using it for important events already.. Besides the obvious of plugging in birthday, anniversary, and stuff, you should also plug in a monthly reminder of your first date (after a year change it to a yearly reminder). Include information in the notes section of the reminder about what she was wearing, where you went, what you talked about, and any other trivia that happened that day. Program it to remind you a week before each to get her a present or make a reservation at her favorite restaurant. This is another great nooky getter!


Wash Your Sheets Weekly

Some guys just do not get it. It is okay to sleep in your own drool stains. It is not cool to expect your girlfriend to do the same! Clean it up if you want her to actually lie down in your bed to have sex with you.


Shop With Her – At Your Local Sex Store

There is nothing worse than breaking out a funky sex toy or costume that you bought for your new girlfriend; only to find out she doesn’t like it, or it doesn’t fit. You cannot return intimate apparel or sex toys, so it is worth the effort to get the right stuff in the first place. Make the effort to involve her in the selection so she will actually be into using whatever you get. There are a couple of approaches. The first is to get her wasted so she will agree to almost any thing. The second is to just go in to look around so you can see what all the "sex perverts" are in to. When you get her in there, you can joke about some of the more extreme stuff, but it will be easy to talk her into trying some of the cuter stuff like sexy outfits, whipped cream, or edible panties for your initial purchases. Once she is more into it, she will get more adventurous.


Now go have a blast!

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