Sex and The Great Outdoors

When you’re dating during the spring and summer, if you’re lucky, you’ll find yourself in the great outdoors at some point. Whether that means camping or staying at a cottage, there will be many romantic moments as you enjoy yourself out in 'the wilds'. All that fresh air and all those sunsets are natural sexual invigorators – getting her in the intimate frame of mind, and reminding him about the natural side of being alive. The nights will also add their share of enjoyment as you sneak down to the water to skinny-dip under the full moon and the wash of stars in the milky-way. Invariably, at some point, the entire concept of outdoors sex will just happen. Sex can be a great thing of course, but there are some cautions that you should take before setting out on such sexual adventures.

Problem: Sex in the Dirt (and Not the Down and Dirty Type Dirt

Outdoor activities expose you to more grime, and with that, more bacteria. Normal outdoor activities like starting a fire, cooking over a campfire, cutting wood, and just the smoke and bug sprays leaves you a much less desirable person to be around from an intimacy point of view. No matter how amorous you might feel, the Hollywood movie version of an idyllic and loving camping trip or nature walk are unlikely to happen unless you take care of basic sanitation necessities. So there are a few recommendations. Wash up thoroughly before bedtime. When roughing it in the bush, take a container of 'wet wipes' with you to help keep yourself sanitary in your nether regions.

Solution: Wash As Much As Possible

There are ways around this pitfall, of course. Most parks have access to shower facilities, but sometimes these are overloaded, or sometimes you may not be close enough to avail ourselves of them. Go during off-peak hours when you’ll have some privacy – waiting until all the kids in the park are in bed is the perfect time to go. If you are around showers, then you can make use of them. Perhaps using them after midnight or very early in the morning would bypass shower queues. Of course if you on a backpack trail, you will need to either bath in a stream, or else mutually sponge bath each other.

Problem:  Being Alone

Tents are just not good at blocking sound. When you have sex at night, especially if one of you is a screamer, be prepared for anything from amusing looks or accusing looks from the campsites around you. In the worst case you may get a visit from the park authorities (and hopefully not in the middle of the act).

 Solution: Long Nature Treks

This one works like a charm, as long as you remember some basic safety tips. First, watch out for wildlife – especially lions and tigers and bears – OH MY! – just kidding, but there are some animals that you have to consider depending on your region. Many areas have bears, but in the mountain regions, there are some cats that may cause concern. Most other meat eaters tend to shy away from people, but if you are in the deep south, you can run into reptiles that are not so pleasant. Nothing dampens the libido more than running for your life. Second, do not go at night for a sex hike. It is too easy to get lost, or stumble and hurt yourself. Better to go in daylight and pick a seldom-used trail. Third, bring a blanket for comfort and to keep from getting grass and sand from getting in your various hairy parts. Tell other people in your campsite where you will be.  If you do not turn up on time because you just got too caught up in sex, then they can send the Rangers looking for you.

Have fun this summer!

Online Dating Sites

 

College Dating

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not off my rocker or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, kids and a condo with huge monthly fees, being single is not what I want to be for the rest of my life. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest friend,  I have had more than my fair share of relationship problems, I would love to have a real relationship with someone other than my chia pet, college dating stinks, for me anyway. Why does it seem like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.

I asked a close companion once (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how they do it, I explained to her that when I go to get togethers, the other girls seem to have no problem approaching the guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me if I would let someone elbow me out of line at the bank. I replied I would grab them and tell then to get in line and wait their turn like everyone else. She said excellent, the next time some girl tries to take your man just give her a shove, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my dog.

College guys mystify me, I'm a smart attractive college girl but they act like I have two heads. The ones I do go out with are only interested in the horizontal mambo, for a lot college guys it is put out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just college girls who have problems, there are college dudes who do not seem to play well with college babes. It seems if you won't go to bed with them they think you are gay, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The boys tell me that some of the girls expect them have sex with them off the get go and if they don't make a move she tells other people that they have no sex drive. Many of these men are nice guys that have respect for women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of treatment.

There may be, however, a silver lining to this cloud, several of the men and women have decided to signup to some of the better online college dating sites. They have heard some amazing stories from other college students who met their dream date on one of the college dating sites. They said the people on these sites don't care what color your hair is and they're not just interested in a good time in bed, they're really nice people, and college students like us. They have a life plan that includes more than just getting through the current semester. They plan to meet and settle down with the person of their dreams. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I had no idea at the time what he was up to or how they found each other.

I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself.  My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college or looking to date someone  who is in college why don't you follow this link:

College Dating

Setting Up A Hot Date For the Single Dad

It that time of the year when most women have been thinking about their parents for a while.

Is there something that you could give a gift to besides your immediate parents? 

Lets look outside of your immediate family and broaden your sights to include your immediate circle of friends.

Is there a single father that you know who is so tied up with his kids that he never seems to get a chance to get out on his own? You know the type. A great guy who just does not have the time, inclination or money to do the bar scene anymore looking for action. In other words, a great husband for the right woman.

So would you like to be play Yenta for him and find him a match?

But you are out of girlfriends, what can you do now?

So why not try a significantly different approach that will achieve the same objective?

A situation where he can select the next person to go out with!
How about setting him up with a way to look at and communicate with women from home after the kids are asleep!
A gift that helps him seek company by communicating with women who are not the paid telephone chat-line bimbos that you see in TV advertising!

All of these issues are addressed by signing him up to an online dating site.

Unfortunately you have heard how unsuccessful many men are at finding someone on an online dating site. What most men do not know though is that the reason they are unsuccessful is that men are just generally really bad at understanding what it is about them that women find attractive!

Enter you!

The ideal present for your single dad friend would be to buy him a membership to an online dating site.  To add a personal touch, you set up a profile for them. Set up the profile, select a few of those great pictures that you have of him enjoying himself with friends, and then write up profile text that would make any woman weep with joy to read.

After all, only a woman knows how to truly reach the soul of another woman.

Do your friend a favor.

Spend a few bucks, and a few minutes to set him up with the gift of a lifetime. Help him find a new life partner.

Nothing could be a better gift than that – ever!!

For a solid starting point, check out this link for ideas of the best online dating sites to select from:

Online Dating Sites

Using Online Dating Sites

If there's one thing the Internet has introduced us to that we love, it's online dating. If you stop to ponder it a bit, you will understand that it makes the whole process of meeting someone to date just way too easy. It is totally possible to browse profiles in your own time and short list a full array of interesting people that you may want to open communications with before wasting a lot of time talking to people who would not interest you in the long run. You already know if you have mutual interests before even initiating any contact. No awkward conversation at bars, no “trying to get out of it”, nothing. No more worries about that creepy guy in the corner approaching you just before last call. Better yet, if your potential hunk or babe du jour is secretly dissing you behind your back, you are unlikely to ever know.

One of the more interesting aspects of online dating is how up front people are when describing themselves on their profiles; information that is often only found out later when dating in the real world. You will find that many people who join an online dating site will give you a full discourse on their personal lives and desires. Many people on online dating sites just do not get the fact that they are trying to market themselves in a positive light. Being up front about fetishes, all the sins of past partners, and health issues come across very negatively, and as such end up working at cross purposes to what you are trying to do, and that is find a partner to date.

Then there's the aspect of comfort. How comfortable are you, meeting people you've never met in person? I guess it depends on the person. When it comes to me, I tend to be paranoid and trusting at the same time. As in, I'll go and meet them, but I'll keep my distance.  A good tip for those of you who want to go ahead with online dating, but are worried about that: tell a friend of yours where you'll be, who you'll be with and keep your cellphone on. Just pretend you are your parents and you are going out for your first date. What kinds of things did they expect you to do? Just take similar precautions and you should be okay. To be doubly sure, stay away from totally free dating sites like OKcupid or Plentyoffish. Not that they are bad in themselves, but if you stick to sites where people have to pay to join, there is less chance of running into a molester. Paying just leaves an easy financial footprint for police to follow, so predators tend to avoid paid sites

Other than these simple precautions, I only have good things to say about online dating sites. Meeting people in person for the first time is always a bit of a rush. I mean, you think you know them pretty good by this point, but you can always be surprised. I met someone once with a distinctive body odour that I could not get past. Not hold your nose BO, but rather some subtle scent that may have been genetic or something that they ate regularly. Either way, it was a turn off for me even though I liked them? I am also always nervous as to how I will measure up in turn. Other than that, like I said, I have nothing but good things to say about it.

Most of my friends feel that meeting someone online is just a better forum for exploring a new relationship. Dating sites tend to be less about looks and more about compatibility of interests and thinking. The length of time that people will communicate online before making the decision to meet in person varies widely. I have found however that people who wait too long will often find the other party either lose interest or else they get involved with someone else while they are chatting you up for weeks. There is a middle place where you are safe, but not seen as boringly cautious. Personally, I love the conversation bits. Starting off with a few topics (music, TV, movies etc.) and growing into a full blown conversation frenzy about all kinds of things like work, friends, funny stories etc. Some people worry that if you start off that way, you'll run out of things to talk about – I think it's quite the opposite. When I get started with people, I can't run out of things to talk about...all the e-mails back and forth have done is put ideas in each others heads and told us all we need to know to keep things going.

Sometimes meeting an interesting person face to face for the first time ends up in disappointment. No spark! Often though, these people end up being really good friends because there is just so many other things that you have in common. No matter what sex, sexuality, race, religion or age range that you may be targeting when you first join up, you will likely find your match on an online dating site.

Dating sites are just a natural offshoot of what it is that the Internet does best, and that is to connect people and keep people connected, even at a distance. The Internet is not going away any time soon, and as a consequence, neither are dating sites. Just go for it!

If you are interested in online dating sites, but are not sure where to start, then check out this link:

Online Dating

Dating In The Electronic Age

With every passing day, things change in the dating world. It seems like only yesterday all you needed for a successful courtship was a big club to smack a love interest over the head with. But nowadays, especially with social media, there are some considerations you need to make while dating new people. So to help you out, I have included a few choice tidbits of information that you may be able to glean some tips from.


Writing Her at Work

Almost every white collar worker has a computer at their disposal in their job place now. This is an opportunity for you to send some little "thinking about you" note. Although you may be tempted to include some cute photo of you and her smooching, or other more intimate stuff, do not do so. Email in the work place is not private, and is often monitored by the computer department. Sending intimate information into a corporation can diminish your girlfriend in the eyes of others at work, especially if she is in any sort of supervisory position. Most people do not realize that work email is not private and it is totally owned by the company where she works. They can read anything at will without any legal documentation required.


Other Dudes Posting on her Facebook Wall

No matter how inappropriate a random yahoo is on your girlfriend’s Facebook wall, don’t lose your cool. Don’t get jealous. If she’s a quality lady, she’ll tell the dude to clean it up or she’ll un-friend him (unless it really us just harmless bantering between old friends). If you see the guy at a club, feel free to “crop dust” him as revenge. (Crop dusting is walking by someone in a club and farting as you pass them, leaving them in a big stink cloud).


Turn Down Your Answering Machine to “Off”

You never know who will call you or what they will say. If you are with your girlfriend in your apartment and your ex calls looking to get back together it could prove embarrassing. To avoid this type of drama in your life, it is just a lot safer to leave the machine off and check messages when you are alone.


See Her Off In The Morning

Many women are very career oriented now. To this end, she may have to be an early riser to stay on top of workloads. If she stayed the night, you will score big points by getting up with her in the early morning hours when she rises. Fix her a light breakfast of toast and coffee, or toast and tea. The extra attention will be well received, and you can pretty much bank on getting some extra loving that night for the effort! Besides, you can go back to sleep after she has gone and grab a few more winks anyway, so it is no biggie from your perspective. This is the best nooky-getting gimmick ever!


Plug All Anniversaries, Etc. Into Your Doodad

Start using that expensive smart phone that you keep in your pocket to its fullest. You may already be using it for important events already.. Besides the obvious of plugging in birthday, anniversary, and stuff, you should also plug in a monthly reminder of your first date (after a year change it to a yearly reminder). Include information in the notes section of the reminder about what she was wearing, where you went, what you talked about, and any other trivia that happened that day. Program it to remind you a week before each to get her a present or make a reservation at her favorite restaurant. This is another great nooky getter!


Wash Your Sheets Weekly

Some guys just do not get it. It is okay to sleep in your own drool stains. It is not cool to expect your girlfriend to do the same! Clean it up if you want her to actually lie down in your bed to have sex with you.


Shop With Her – At Your Local Sex Store

There is nothing worse than breaking out a funky sex toy or costume that you bought for your new girlfriend; only to find out she doesn’t like it, or it doesn’t fit. You cannot return intimate apparel or sex toys, so it is worth the effort to get the right stuff in the first place. Make the effort to involve her in the selection so she will actually be into using whatever you get. There are a couple of approaches. The first is to get her wasted so she will agree to almost any thing. The second is to just go in to look around so you can see what all the "sex perverts" are in to. When you get her in there, you can joke about some of the more extreme stuff, but it will be easy to talk her into trying some of the cuter stuff like sexy outfits, whipped cream, or edible panties for your initial purchases. Once she is more into it, she will get more adventurous.


Now go have a blast!

If you are reading this and looking for a new relationship, check out this link:
Online Dating Sites

The Dangers Of Online Dating

The Killer May Have Been the Date from Hell!

Sonia Varaschin was killed because she just wanted to meet someone special online.

This situation is a devastating example of the risks underscoring any situation where you meet someone on the internet. Even though the killer left a trail of information on Sonia's computer, it was difficult for police to delve through. This is mainly do to the anonymous nature of dating sites, and the ability of stalkers to totally hide on totally free dating sites. In any event, none of this was any help to Sonia herself.

When someone chooses a site like plentyoffish, they are actually seriously increasing their risk of exposure to predators. Let me clarify that comment.
I am not singling our plentyoffish.com, because other free online dating sites like OKcupid.com fall in the same camp.  I will not try to list them all. Many sites walk the fine edge of maximum danger without actually realizing it.

The real concern here is that there is no traceability to individual people in a free dating model which inherently increases risk for all members. Here is why.

There are lots of weirdos out there. Some are just lacking social skills, but others are sociopaths. There is a very real chance that someone who appears to be nice in a chat room is not so wonderful in real life, and the most dangerous ones are very clever at hiding their anti-social behaviour. The most dangerous of course are homicidal stalkers. They will take your life without a second thought.

So why am I singling out the free communication dating sites? Well actually I am not!
This range of sites also includes facebook.com. Accepting friend requests from someone you do not know who is a friend of a friend is a very dangerous practice. If you friend is as sloppy as you are, you may find that you just befriended a stalker.

Social networking sites that require some form of payment before allowing communication are inherently safer. Because it is easy for police to follow the money on such sites, sexual predators stay clear of them.  On the other hand, it only takes them a small amount of time to set up a string of phony email account on yahoo ,then set up a bogus email account on gmail using the yahoo account as reference, then erase the yahoo account.  At that point you can now go into the gmail account and point the base email account to some fictitious email account on aol, and you have pretty much left a tough trail for police to track.  Smart stalkers use a trail for free emails spanning several countries and corporate entities, thus becoming more invisible.  With a fist full of untraceable email accounts your typical sexual predator can join free social networking sites to their heart's content.  Coupled with a disposable cell phone purchased in another city, and you have full communication with someone who has just created an untraceable identity.

So what can you do about it?
For starters, stay clear of free dating sites. They are not worth the risk.
These next tips are just common sense details:
1) Make sure you communicate online for a fair length of time before meeting in person. Keep all details about who you really are or where you live private until you know them better.
2) At some point use a disposable phone yourself, or else take advantage of an anonymous phone service, like MyPrivateLine.com, which offers a disposable number that lets you talk to strangers without revealing your phone number.
3) Before you commit your heart, make sure you are doing due diligence on this person. Be careful with what you say, and listen carefully to what is said. Consider recording the call so you can take notes after.  Look for changes in the lines that they string you. Ask for the same information a few different ways over the course of your initial acquaintance and make sure the answers are consistent. Inconsistent answers are all danger signals. Stalkers will often mix up the stories that they tell different women, and that is one of your best weapons in finding if they are genuine or bullshit.
4) Seek recent photos, and think of some way that you can verify that the photo is recent.
5) Make sure that they understand that you are just being careful. Honest people will not have a serious problem with it. The worst thing that can happen is that they take a walk if they think you are a bit nutso. You must also be willing to do the same. If you are not willing to give up your home town, then use a public library and use a paper from another city in your photo.
6) Meet at a café rather than a bar, meet in the day time, and keep it short. For added security tell your friends where you are and make sure that your date knows this as soon as they arrive.
7) Use your camera phone and MMS it to a few friends. Then tell them what you have done that. If they have a problem with you doing this, then get out yesterday!

Use your head before you lose your heart so you can keep both.

If you are still interested in paid online dating, check out the following link:

Online Dating Sites

How to Make Love Like a Porn Star

Women all over the world would like to be able to give their man sexual action so fulfilling, that they will become inseparable. The real problem behind this desire is that most women do not really know what they have to do sexually to separate them from the herd of other women out there. What is it that a man is looking for that they find when they watch porn movies? The women are not overly attractive, the acting is horrible, there are no real story lines. So the attraction is certainly not intellectual. The attraction is purely physical, but there is more to it than just simple sex. If a man was just wanting an orgasm, he can do it to himself in minutes.

The attraction is in having a woman do whatever it takes to please him sexually. And that pretty much means anything that he might ever want to do. A woman who asks what he wants and gives it to him, and tells him what she wants so he can reciprocate. Shy does not work here!! Men want an assertive woman in bed when it comes to sex. Nobody wants to be in bed with a DF — (that is a dead f#%k, in case you do not know).

Read more about it here:
Make Love Like A Porn Star



If you are are interested in behaving like a porn star, then find a list of great places to find men here:
Adult Dating Sites

My Favorite Colour Is Yellow

I communicated with a guy online that a friend of mine had given my messenger address to, we chatted for about two months. We finally decided to meet for lunch one day as a way to see if anything more would develop. He lived about an hour and a half away from me so it was quite a drive to my apartment. He showed up in an old truck (and I mean old) it looked like it had once belonged to “Jed Clampett”!

I greeted him and things started to go downhill even more quickly. He looked like he just came from a construction site, he was completely unkempt and his clothes were dirty, dusty and smelly. He then told me I would have to drive because there was a hole in the floorboard on the passenger side and he did not want me falling through.

We went to a small Chinese buffet for lunch. It was nice and the food was excellent. I was starting to become impressed, but that did not last too long.  He did the usual compliments about me and then proceeded to tell me an anecdote of how he had lost most of the toes on one foot because of a childhood accident with his dad's loaded rifle. Like I cared. He then told me that he did not have a job. He had lied to me so I would go out with him. Then I found out he was going to be evicted from his friend's garage because he could not pay his rent. Then this loser started to blubber that he had nothing. No job, no prospects and he knew that he was not good looking. He was so annoying it was pathetic. Rather than beat him about the head and shoulders with a baseball bat like I desperately wanted to, I just bit my tongue and consoled him. I said that he just had to be patient and the right one would come along. It just would not be me. He paid for lunch and then he took me back to my apartment.

As we stood at my apartment door he remembered that he had bought a gift for me and that he had left it in the truck. He asked me what my favourite colour was and I said it was yellow. He then ran down the hall in excitement. I stood there wondering what in the world could he have bought me that was yellow. Well I soon found out. He returned a few minutes later with some over-ripe bananas. I didn't know weather to laugh or cry so I did neither. Instead I just stood there in awe. He then proceeded to tell me he had to spend the night because he had had a little too much to drink and didn’t want to get caught driving. I told him (over my dead body) and tried to push him out the door. He was very reluctant to leave so I did the only thing I could do. I attacked him with my bananas, hurling them at him until he backed up into the hall, then I slammed the door! He screamed at me to let him in, but there was no way that was happening. I yelled at him he could stuff his bananas up his butt. Then I told him to leave or I would call the cops. Thank God he left before I had to go through that too.

It was a life altering date. I had to move and change all my personal online information. My friends never give out my personal information anymore.

I think I will join a dating site, hopefully one that doesn’t have any banana toting sex pots.

Online Dating Sites

Dating Online Recommendations

Modern Online Dating Survey Results:

Here is a summary of the results of a study about the online dating practices of urban dwellers. This was the culmination for interviewing just under 100 men and women about how they date online and what they look for in potential dates and partners. Online Dating Sites may not result in you winning your life partner, but it may be an interesting diversion from all those hard to believe Match.com and eHarmony.com commercials on TV that try to convince you about your need for someone new in your life during the late winter/early spring/ mid summer blahs. 

Some Dating Insights Gained:

1)     People who date online attempt to put the odds in their favor when trying to find their soul mate. As such, it is not uncommon for someone to join 5 or more different dating sites at the same time. On the same note, they are also more likely to date several people concurrently, trying to keep all of them on the string until they can make a final choice. Kind of like the online world's version of “The Bachelor” or “The Bachelorette”. Playing the field is a defense mechanism in the online arena. Because of the anonymity of the sites, you cannot tap into you normal social networks to find out about the people you are talking to online, or dating in real life. There is a much higher chance of being taken in by a smooth talker. It is also easy to give your heart away to a loser. Keeping several people “in process” at the same time helps you from “settling” on any one of them prematurely. Online dating sites cannot give you that same intuitive comfort before your first real interaction that you get in more conventional dating scenes, therefore, with online dating, the meet in person step tends to be more often a miss than a hit.

2)     Online Dating is much more superficial – pictures and videos are everything – without them you get almost no action, or attention.  Ladies about having less than average looks. If you do a good job of portraying yourself in both words and pictures of someone who loves to have fun, you will get positive results.  This is a marketing exercise, not a life story exercise. If you are selling beauty products on television you do not explain each step of the research that lead to the product. Although you might mention the research, you tend to focus on the results, and the benefits. Market yourself in a positive and flattering manner. Whatever you do, do not post a picture of yourself that is taken with your web-cam – the video quality sucks, and you can never show yourself in a socially fun situation with a web cam For women, since men do not read much, you have to be reasonably brief in what you say, but it also needs to be fun and engaging if you hope to have him read. Watch the movie “Must Love Dogs” for ideas in how to market yourself on an internet dating site. For men, you must read the words!! Women are strong communicators and they will say what they are looking for, and they will also say what they are definitely not looking for. Be honest about who or what you are, and do not annoy a women with attention of any sort if you are definitely on her “must not be” list.  In any event, for both sexes, keep the brief and factual (within limits of course – this is marketing after all). If you are lucky, you will find other people with similar interests and a complimentary sense of silliness. Be prepared to use the email and chatting facilities of the online site to get to know people better. Do not over write or over work your profile.  Your online profile is a 30 second teaser commercial, not an in depth user manual.

3)     Men without strong advancement prospects, or God forbid, no jog at all will find it difficult making much headway on some specialty dating sites where people are focused on success. Women have a pre-disposition to be attracted to “good providers”. In cave man days it was the best hunter. In modern times, this is a man with a stable job and steady income. On the other hand, if you can connect with a woman physically, they will often overlook the fact that you are flip burgers at McDonald's, as long as you can show yourself to be someone with future prospects.  By the way, keep information about your personal finances close. There are a lot of gold diggers out there!

4)     BBW women are as disadvantaged as they think they are. As long as you do not have flab's of cellulite hanging several inches under your arms, you likely have a solid chance of getting the favorable attention of most men. If you are not wider than you are tall, then likely you have a pretty good chance of finding someone. In any event, most women will post a profile of themselves at a younger and lighter age, and then proceed to lighten the age load a few years on top of that in their profile.  Men will often lie about their income, but are usually quite truthful about their ages. Men are almost always athletic or average, and almost none admit to being overweight or obese.

5)     Love does not actually happen online – love can only happen after you meet.  You either have chemistry with someone, or you do not, there is no kinda click, there is no partial chemistry. You totally fall head over heels in love with someone, or else you settle for something that is less than total love. It is the many little interactions between two people that add up to someone falling in love. The average time between meeting on a dating site and meeting in person is about two to four weeks. You must be cautious on a dating site, but you cannot be overly cautious or you will fail. If you are attracted to someone, so are other people, and you have to compete for their attention. Putting off a face to face meet for too long will doom you to failure.

6)     There is still a social stigma associated with online dating. The reputation is that people who use such sites don't have a real life. They are social outcasts, ugly people, and deviants. Nothing is further from the truth. Even so, people using such services are reluctant to be associated with “losers”, or, they may be careless with their safety.  The fact is that one in five relationships at the current time are people who met online.. Because of the anonymous nature of dating sites, you are more likely to be targetted by deviants on facebook, where everyone can see your real name, than on a dating site, where nobody knows your real name or where you live. Most people who meet and fall in love online do not broadcast how they met to the world at large, so all you hear about is the people who were not successful on dating sites. This leaves a bad negative impression of the online dating industry in the public eye. People will admit that they met in line getting an unemployment check, but they will not admit to meeting online for some reason.

7)    The real power of dating sites is their ability to match people up who are in completely different social circles, and therefore would never have met through any conventional means. The fact that everyone on the site is looking to meet someone for the purpose of dating, or establishing a long term relationship, it is incredibly easy to start up a conversation with someone that you have never met. You already have at least one subject in common – dating. These social dating sites are the ideal place for busy professionals or single parents. Who has the time to hang out in bars with a bunch of underage teens with forged identity? There is not enough hours in the day, so if you want to meet someone, then you should take your search online to make more productive use of your limited time. If you want to find successful and interesting people, then online dating is truly the wave of the present, and the future. Do not expect every match presented to be made in heaven. There will still be some off spec people in the barrel, so keep on trying.


If you are interested in online dating sites, then you might want to check out this resource page:

Online Dating

Setting Up A Hot Date For the Single Dad

As the year advances, most women are now into the mode of thinking about parents. Not so much mothers this time, but fathers.

In the majority of cases, you have already done your own mothers day or father's day purchases, but is there something more that you can do? 

Lets look outside of your immediate family and broaden your sights to include your immediate circle of friends.

Do you know a really great single father who would love to be with a woman, but just does not seem to have the time to follow through? Almost every woman has at least one. Someone that is only a friend, but is truly a great guy and would be a stellar husband for some lucky female.

So are you getting excited about trying your hand at matchmaking yet?

Darn – you do not actually know anyone that you can set him up with.

So what about this as the ideal alternative approach?

A situation where he can select the next person to go out with!
A gift that gives him an opportunity to communicate with lots of women who may want to be a mother to his children!
A gift that helps him seek company by communicating with women who are not the paid telephone chat-line bimbos that you see in TV advertising!

The answer is as simple as signing him up for an online dating site.

Unfortunately, most men really suck at communicating and expressing their wishes.  They are also not good at letting the great person that they really are show publicly.

Enter you!

The best present for your single father friend would be to purchase him a membership to an online dating site.  To add a personal touch, you create the account for them. Set up the profile, select a few of those great pictures that you have of him enjoying himself with friends, and then write up profile text that would make any woman dash out the door in her hurry to meet this guy.

It takes a woman to understand the needs of, and reach the heart of another woman after all.

Do your friend a favor.

Spend a few bucks, and a few minutes to set him up with the gift of a lifetime. Help him find a new life partner.

It is truly the ultimate gift!

For a great place to start, check out this link for ideas of the best online dating sites to select from:

Online Dating Sites

College Relationships

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not off my rocker or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, children and a condo, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest friend,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I would love to have a relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating is very frustrating for me. Why does it appear like all my friends are in a committed relationship but me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.

I once asked a friend (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I confided in her that when I go to a frat party or some little get together in one of the dorms, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Well her answer to me was simple, crazy but simple, she asked if you were standing inline and there was one piece of cheese cake left that you had your eye on it and someone tried to butt in front of you what would you do. I replied I would elbow them and embarrass them into standing at the back of the line like everyone else. She said excellent, the next time some girl tries to steal your man toy just kick her ass, walk up to the man buffet and grab your piece. Maybe I should have asked my dog.

College guys mystify me, I'm a smart attractive young woman but they act like I am a wart on their butts sometimes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sexual stimulation, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just me that has problems, there are some college boys that have the same problem with college girls. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are gay, its too bad because even though sex is an amazing thing, there is just so much more to life and relationships than just boinking each other. The guys tell me that a lot of the college girls want them to get in the sack with them and if they shows any signs of reluctance she trashes them to her friends. Many of these men are nice guys that are just the type of guy that you would want to have a life with and don't just think of them as an easy lay, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of disrespect.

There may be, however, a silver lining to this cloud, several of the group have decided to go online to some of the college dating sites they've heard about and sign up.. They have heard some amazing stories from other college students who met their dream date on one of the college dating sites. They said the people on these sites don't care what color your hair is and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're fantastic people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They hope to meet the person of their dreams and settle down to a long future together. One of my friends actually met his fiance on a college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.

I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself.  My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:

Dating in College