Most Common Difficulties with Dating Women

If you are looking for tips on dating women, then this post hopefully will give you a few insights. When you are successful with women on a first date, they will will want to go out with you again, no matter what your financial position is or how you look. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm.  Although there is such a thing as too nice, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few things you should not do such as:
1) Do not be too subservient such as
a. Making her feel so important that you look needy. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, do it in a light hearted manner. You will achieve the complement without appearing to be subservient.
b. Asking her to compare you  others – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not push this rhetorical button; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Delegating control of the date to her. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her short list of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have have not done sufficient research as to what her needs are. You have screwed up, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can dig for suggestions, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, thoughtful, but flexible).
2) The next common mistake is trying to impress her excessively. Do not crow and breast beat, and do not say how much money you make.  Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pick up the bill.  Date one is female centric, it is not about you. If she wants to know more about you, then give them a solid well thought out answer but avoid excessive rhetoric, or else you are in the danger zone of saying too much and coming across as boasting or bragging.
3) Do not do not make the mistake of treating her like a queen. That advice is more important if the woman is very pretty.  Very pretty women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are hanging out with bad boys?  That is because hoods do not put them on a pedestal and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the bums treat them like crap, but they like that because at least the bum is treating them differently than everyone else does. Nothing is more tiring to attractive women as getting an unsolicited compliment – they have heard it all before.  The more successful tack is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship.  Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem  desperate in their eyes.  No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.

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