College Relationships

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not off my rocker or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, children and a condo, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest friend,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I would love to have a relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating is very frustrating for me. Why does it appear like all my friends are in a committed relationship but me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.

I once asked a friend (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I confided in her that when I go to a frat party or some little get together in one of the dorms, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Well her answer to me was simple, crazy but simple, she asked if you were standing inline and there was one piece of cheese cake left that you had your eye on it and someone tried to butt in front of you what would you do. I replied I would elbow them and embarrass them into standing at the back of the line like everyone else. She said excellent, the next time some girl tries to steal your man toy just kick her ass, walk up to the man buffet and grab your piece. Maybe I should have asked my dog.

College guys mystify me, I'm a smart attractive young woman but they act like I am a wart on their butts sometimes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sexual stimulation, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just me that has problems, there are some college boys that have the same problem with college girls. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are gay, its too bad because even though sex is an amazing thing, there is just so much more to life and relationships than just boinking each other. The guys tell me that a lot of the college girls want them to get in the sack with them and if they shows any signs of reluctance she trashes them to her friends. Many of these men are nice guys that are just the type of guy that you would want to have a life with and don't just think of them as an easy lay, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of disrespect.

There may be, however, a silver lining to this cloud, several of the group have decided to go online to some of the college dating sites they've heard about and sign up.. They have heard some amazing stories from other college students who met their dream date on one of the college dating sites. They said the people on these sites don't care what color your hair is and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're fantastic people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They hope to meet the person of their dreams and settle down to a long future together. One of my friends actually met his fiance on a college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.

I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself.  My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:

Dating in College